thats how much time i spent at the nini's today. =) it rocked! thanks for the invite, Christy!
i'm pretty pooped. i dont really know why i'm up writing this when i should be sleeping..
question: is it true that once you're over someone, those feelings dont come back?
answer: for the most part, i believe it to be true. because if you think about it, if they come back, that means they were never completely gone. meaning you're not really over that someone. so unless you're comepletely over that someone, those feelings will never come back. yeah?
question: how long does it take to recover from a 5 year relationship which was your first relationship ever? [recover means to jump into a new relationship and to not be bitter towards the person anymore..]
answer: seems to be about more than 9 months, but mostly depending if you end up on good terms or not.
question: how long does it take to not be bitter about someone and how does it happen?
answer: a lonnngg butt time. and i dunno how not being bitter happens.
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My answer to question 1: i think there's something incomplete in the question. consider the question like this: is it true that once you're over someone, those feelings don't come back IF YOU SEE HIM/HER AGAIN or IF YOU SEE SOMETHING THAT REMINDS YOU OF HIM/HER?
if this were the complete question, then yes, you're over that someone. otherwise, the answer to the original first question would be: "it depends."
My Answer to Question 2: There is no standard measure of time. It is inevitably up to the person to move on with his/her life. If it takes 3 months, then it does. If it take 1 year, then it does. Everyone has their own pace at living.
My Answer to Question 3: it is seriously up to the person. if he/she wants to be bitter for 9 years, then hey, that's up to him/her. If he/she wants to be bitter for 3 hours, it is up to that person. Each and every individual is capable of controlling and choosing their state of being, and the duration of that state. First, it's a matter of awareness. Next, it's a matter of choice. And if that choice is to change, the next matter is will and commitment to change.
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